You might be wondering why your bedroom might need a toy if you’re putting in the work. “I know how to please my partner!” This defensive response can derive from a number of scenarios including the inability or low confidence in pleasing their partner, low stamina, or a small penis.
Does size really matter to women? Well, it depends on the woman’s preference because a man who is well indulged could cause different types of physical issues like pain, discomfort, and even the rearrangement of internal organs. Sorry guys-it’s the truth. A man who might not be packing could suffer from low self-esteem which would cause him to over-boost his talk-game only to fall short, try to over-compensate orally only to turn his partner off, or decide to splurge on her materialistic resulting in a financial relationship.
At the end of the day, there has to be communication between both partners as well as an understanding to why they would want to bring a toy into the relationship. It just might not have anything to do with you.
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When was the last time you told a man of color that he was doing a great job as a father? When did you last tell him Thank You for doing something he didn’t have to in the first place? Our Black Men lack praise when it is due and quickly, you see it viewed as hun “doing what a man is suppose to do anyways.” But the question is…”Are all men doing what they’re suppose to?” No.
That should be even more reason for you to show him that you’re recognizing even the smallest of his actions. It doesn’t hurt. It doesn’t cost. Simply a nice gesture of gratitude goes a long way and you better believe it will not go unnoticed.
To all the Black Men out there…you are appreciated!
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